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Best Days of Your Life

Kellie Pickler (Kellie Pickler Album) | 2008

“Best Days of Your Life” is a song performed by American country music artist Kellie Pickler. It was written by Pickler and Taylor who also provides background vocals on the song. It was released on December 1, 2008, as the second single from Kellie Pickler’s self-titled second album. The song is about a narrator explaining how her former boyfriend cheated on her and moved on to a new girlfriend.
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Background and Lyrical Theme

In the song, Kellie sings about a former boyfriend who cheated on her and is going to get married and build a family with the lover. Although she wishes them to be happy and have a nice life, she says that he’s already had the best days of his life with her (the narrator), and the new partner can never top it. She also feels sorry for his new girlfriend, because she has the concept that a cheater will always be a cheater, and while she is getting the prizes of her future, all the lover gets is the cheater boyfriend.

In an interview, Kellie has said that the circumstances portrayed in the song are based on a real-life experience that she herself went through. She stated that she discovered her boyfriend cheating while she was on Brad Paisley’s “Bonfires & Amplifiers Tour” as an opening act alongside her friend Taylor. She told Taylor about her boyfriend cheating and Taylor had the idea of writing a song about the experience:

«Taylor Swift and I actually wrote this song together while we were on tour with Brad Paisley. I had went through a really bad breakup a while back, so we wrote the song about the relationship that went sour. It's so funny, because Taylor always says that she has the 'Picture [to Burn]' song, and Carrie Underwood has 'Before He Cheats'...and now 'Best Days of Your Life'; that's my kiss-off song! [My ex] has heard it, and so has the person he's with now, so I guess it's bittersweet.»

Kellie Pickler’s former boyfriend, Jordin Tootoo, claimed in an interview with the Montreal Gazette and in his autobiography that Pickler’s song was about their relationship.

Music Video

The music video was shot on February 26, 2009, in Nashville, Tennessee, and is directed by Roman White, who notably also worked with Taylor on the music videos for “Fifteen” and “You Belong With Me” at the time. It was released on March 25, 2009, to members of Kellie’s official fanclub, and then to CMT on March 28, 2009.

In the video, Kellie goes out to the movies at the Belcourt Theater with her friends for her birthday and sees her boyfriend cheating on her (played by Cortney Buczkowski), so she leaves. Later on, he is completely unhappy with his new life and has many flashbacks of him and Kellie. One day, while he and his girlfriend are walking through Hillsboro Village, she reveals that she is pregnant; he runs across the street and tries to make it up to Kellie, who is out shopping with Taylor, but he is hit by a bus and put in the hospital. Later, Kellie visits him and signs her name on his body cast and leaves. Throughout the video, Kellie is shown singing alongside Taylor and her band, with Kellie’s ex watching through his television.

Critical Reception

Kevin J. Coyne of Country Universe described the chorus as strong and compared it to the catchiness of Faith Hill’s “This Kiss”. But he described the verses unfavorably: “Pickler sounds strained, there’s no discernible melody and the lyrics are no more memorable than the music backing them up.”

Commercial Performance

The song debuted at No. 56 on the U.S. Billboard Hot Country Songs chart for the week of November 20, 2008. The song has become her biggest hit on the Billboard Hot 100, debuting at No. 50 following the song’s performance on American Idol. The song has been Kellie’s most successful single to date and her first Top Ten hit on the country charts, as well as her first single to surpass 1,000,000 legal downloads, achieving Platinum certification in June 2010. After spending nearly 40 weeks on the country chart, it reached a peak of No. 9 in August 2009.

Lyrics

[Chorus]
Cause I’ll be there, in the back of your mind
From the day we met ’till you were making me cry
And it’s just too bad, cause you’ve already had the best days
The best days of your life

[Verse 1]
Ain’t it a shame?
A shame that every time you hear my name
Brought up in a casual conversation
You can’t think straight

And ain’t it sad?
You can forget about what we had
Take a look at her and do you like what you see?
Or do you wish it was me

[Chorus]
Cause I’ll be there, in the back of your mind
From the day we met to the very last night
And it’s just too bad, cause you’ve already had the best days
The best days of you life

[Verse 2]
And does she know?
Know about the times you used to hold me
Wrapped me in your arms and how you told me
I’d be the only one

I heard about
Yeah, someone told me once, when you were out
She went a little crazy ran her mouth about me
Ain’t jealousy funny?

[Chorus]
Cause I’ll be there, in the back of your mind
From the day we met to the very last night
And it’s just too bad, cause you’ve already had the best days
The best days of you life

[Bridge]
With me was a fairytale love
I was head-over-heals ’til you threw away “us”
And it’s just too bad you’ve, cause you’ve already had the best days
The best days of your life

I heard you’re gonna get married
Have a nice little family
Live out my dreams with someone new
But, I’ve been told that a cheater
Is always a cheater
I’ve got my pride, and she’s got you

[Chorus]
Cause I’ll be there, in the back of your mind
From the day we met ’til you were making me cry
And it’s just too bad, cause you’ve already had the best days
The best days of your life

Of your life
Oh, oh, yeah
You’re gonna think of me
You’re gonna think of me in your life
Oh, oh, yeah
It’s a shame, it’s a shame

General Information
ArtistKellie Pickler
BackupTaylor Swift
ReleasedDecember 1, 2008
GenreCountry
Length3:47
LabelBNA
SongwritersKellie Pickler
Taylor Swift
ProducerChris Lindsey
Single Certification
Music Video
Live Performance