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The Secret of Us (Gracie Abrams Album) | 2024

“us.” is track five on Gracie Abrams’ second studio album The Secret of Us (2024). It was co-written by Taylor, who features on the song, and explores the aftermath of a broken relationship.
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Background

The Secret of Us is Gracie Abrams’ second official full-length album release, following 2023’s Good Riddance. Although 2021’s EP This Is What It Feels Like ran to album length at 12 tracks, and was preceded by another EP, Minor (2020), Abrams said she considered Good Riddance, which was her first effort to have Aaron Dessner working with her on its entirety, to be her true album debut.

Gracie Abrams opened for much of Taylor’s “The Eras Tour” in 2023 and would be rejoining the two-year trek as it closed out in fall 2024. Abrams was on “The Today Show” in May of the same year and spoke about her time opening for Taylor:

«I watched every single one of her shows that I was lucky enough to open — I think I did 31 and I watched from every place possible in every stadium, just trying to pick up on how she’s able to do what she does. And she’s such a one-of-a-kind person, friend, artist, all the things.»

Notably, at the Cincinnati stop of the tour, weather prevented Abrams from being able to do her customary opening set, so Taylor invited her to perform “I Miss You, I’m Sorry” as a duet in the middle of her headlining set, after running through it one time in a dressing room beforehand.

Taylor’s features on other artists’ recordings are rare. In the 2020s decade, she showed her continuing affinity for Aaron Dessner and his team by featuring on “The Alcott“, a song by The National (as well as participating in their collaborative Big Red Machine project on “Renegade” and “Birch“). Other features include HAIM’s “Gasoline” remix and “The Joker And The Queen” by Ed Sheeran.

Writing and Recording

According to Gracie, she and Taylor co-wrote “us.” from 2am to 6am on November 14, 2023, at Taylor’s NYC apartment following a dinner out. The songwriting session infamously culminated in a slight fire emergency. They’d both distantly heard a candle fall over earlier, but Taylor had assured Gracie it was probably just one of her cats thumping around. It’s well past 6am, after a night of dinner and drinks — heavy on that second thing — when the fire finally goes out. Gracie shared a video of a frantic Taylor deliriously extinguishing a bonfire threatening to consume her center island:

«She was such a legend – I don’t know how at this hour or in our state she knew what to do. We both had an insane cough from the fire extinguisher fumes for weeks.»

Before that, they had spent the night previewing songs from Gracie’ new record and Taylor’s THE TORTURED POETS DEPARTMENT (2024) for each other before either project had even been announced. In an interview with Billboard, Gracie recalled singing and dancing “like theater kids” to “But Daddy I Love Him” and lying on the floor in disbelief after hearing “The Smallest Man Who Ever Lived,” after which they started listening to instrumentals made by their mutual collaborator and friend Aaron Dessner:

«Something caught our ear at the same time very hard and fast. So we ran to the piano and started writing this song…I used to fantasize about that kind of a thing as a kid.»

Lyrical Theme

“us.” ended up being the ribbon that tied together the material Gracie Abrams had been dreaming up with Aaron Dessner at his famed Long Pond Studios in 2023, after spending the summer opening for Taylor’s “The Eras Tour.” Aaron said:

«Taylor’s brilliant at synthesizing a whole story…[That song] just brought everything [about The Secret of Us] into focus in a beautiful way.»

Shortly after their near-death experience, the two women headed upstate to record the duet with Aaron, who told Billboard: “It was just really fun to watch the chemistry of Gracie and Taylor bouncing off each other, Gracie in total wonder and awe watching how Taylor records and produces her vocal performances and builds the world.”

Live Performances

Taylor and Gracie first performed “us.” together at London’s Wembley Stadium on June 23, 2024, during one of Taylor’s shows on “The Eras Tour” (2023-2024). Introducing the song, Taylor said:

«This song is one that is not technically my song at all. It’s my friend Gracie’s. And man, when I tell you, I just love this girl so much! And I’ve always loved her as an artist, but when you write with someone, it’s like you see the whole thing. You see all the artistry, you see who this person is, really. And writing with her, she’s just so badass, like that’s a writer. And so I was telling her tonight that I would gauge the excitement level for the song here in London. So I’m going to play the song 'us.'»

Taylor and Gracie sang the song together again on November 16, 2024, in Toronto. They performed it as a mashup with “Out of the Woods” (2014). Gracie also added the song to the regular setlist of her “The Secret of Us Tour” (2024-2025).

Accolades

At the 67th Annual Grammy Awards, held on February 2, 2025, “us.” was nominated for “Best Pop Duo/Group Performance.” At one of her “Eras Tour” shows in Toronto, Taylor said: “You guys cared enough about that song when it went out into that world on [Gracie’s] album The Secret of Us, and you got that song nominated for a Grammy this week. And so you can’t even imagine the phone call between the two of us when the nominations came out, and we saw that song was nominated. It was just screeching, it wasn’t even words, it was just feral screeching for the entire call.”

Lyrics

[Verse 1: Gracie Abrams]
I know you know
It felt just like a joke
I’m sure you don’t know we’re talking
I know your ghost
I see her through the smoke
She’ll play her show
And you’ll be watching

[Pre-Chorus 1: Gracie Abrams]
And if history’s clear
Someone always ends up in ruins
And what seemed like fate becomes,
“What the hell was I doing?”
Babylon lovers hanging lifetimes on a vine
Do you miss mine?

[Chorus: Gracie Abrams & Taylor Swift]
Do you miss us?
Us?
I felt it, you held it
Do you miss us?
Us?
Wonder if you regret the secret of us
Us
Us, us, us, us, us, us

[Verse 2: Gracie Abrams, Gracie Abrams & Taylor Swift]
I know you know
It felt like something old
It felt like something holy
Likе souls pleading
So it felt like what I’vе known
You’re twenty-nine years old
So how can you be cold when I open my home?

[Pre-Chorus 2: Taylor Swift, Gracie Abrams & Taylor Swift]
And if history’s clear
The flames always end up in ashes
And what seemed like fate
Give it ten months and you’ll be past it
Babylon lovers hanging missed calls on the line
I gave you mine

[Chorus: Gracie Abrams & Taylor Swift]
Do you mind us?
Us?
I felt it, you held it
Do you miss us?
Us?
Wonder if you regret the secret of us
Us
Us, us, us, us, us, us

[Bridge: Gracie Abrams & Taylor Swift]
That night you were talking
False prophets and profits
They making the margins
Of poetry sonnets (Oh)
You never read up on it
Shame, could’ve learned something
Robert Bly on my nightstand
Gifts from you, how ironic
The curse of a miracle, curse of an oracle
You’re incomparable
Fuck you
What’s happened to you? (You?)
Us, us
Me, me
Was

General Information
ArtistGracie Abrams
FeatureTaylor Swift
WrittenNovember 14, 2023
ReleasedJune 21, 2024
GenreAlternative
Length4:02
LabelInterscope
SongwritersGracie Abrams
Taylor Swift
Aaron Dessner
ProducersAaron Dessner
Jack Antonoff
Gracie Abrams
Taylor Swift
Song Certification
"Platinum" certification by the Recording Industry Association of America. Signifying 1,000,000 units sold.
Taylor Swift & Gracie Abrams
Making of
Live Performance
Lyric Video
Official Audio
Taylor Swift Switzerland Logo (2022)
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